If there’s one thing I’ve learned as an escort, it’s that time is money—literally. Every second I spend with a man is a transaction, whether it’s emotional, physical, or financial. And yet, so many women out here are giving their time away for free, hoping a man will see their worth without them ever demanding it.
Let me be clear: Women are the prize. Always have been, always will be. But the moment you start handing out your time, energy, and affection for free, you’re telling men that your value is negotiable. And trust me, men will take advantage of that. They will drain you, use you, make you believe you’re special—until they don’t need you anymore. And then what? You’re left empty, while he moves on to his next “prize.”
A woman’s value should appreciate, not depreciate. That means knowing your worth and setting your price—not just financially, but emotionally. Not all men are worth your time, and even fewer are worth your love. The ones who truly understand value? They spend their money and time on the women who demand it. Because men will always do what they want, so why not make sure they’re doing it on your terms?
Some women shame others for expecting financial investment from men, but let’s be real—what do men value most? Power. Success. Status. And what do those things require? Money. So why should a woman, the very thing men chase, be expected to settle for anything less? Love doesn’t pay bills, and “potential” doesn’t buy security.
At the end of the day, a man will either respect you enough to invest in you, or he won’t. And if he won’t, then he was never worth your time to begin with. Because if you’re going to deal with the ups and downs of men, the lies, the games, and the chaos—wouldn’t you rather be crying in a Bentley than in a beat-up Honda?
Ladies, stop devaluing yourselves. Your time is precious. Your presence is a privilege. And the right man will always be willing to pay the price.